There is no need for a definition of the successful, so-so and disaster dates. Unless you are totally absentminded or confused you will know how the date went when it is time to say good-bye. Try to be honest about your feelings, as there is good opportunity your partner is feeling the same thing.
There are clear signals you should be giving and receiving at the end of your date. If you had a great time together, you should mention something about a second date. There is no need to conclude all the details on the spot, but you should give the signal that you are willing to continue dating. If all went fine, there is no intuit to wait someone else week for a new date: waiting too long can give the wrong message about your intentions. Best is if you ask your partner out on the next day, or on the day after.
Best First Date Ideas
It is nice if you try to do some follow up after you get home: you can call your date to say good night, or you can send an Sms. You also shouldn't forget about giving encouraging signs on the days after.
If you feel you had a so-so date, but you cannot conclude on your feelings, you should wait until things conclude down, and only then take a decision whether you want to continue dating or not. There is nothing wrong with this, until you are honest with your date.
You can tell him (or her) you had a good time, but you just can't conclude whether you want to continue or not. Ask for some time: this may seem emotionless and cold, but is much good than promising a call while you are not sure you want to continue.
If your date says he or she needs to think it over, then just go home and live your life. Don't call don't send e-mail or Sms, as this can be interpreted as harassment, having a repulsive effect.
If the date was a disaster, being honest with yourself and your partner is assuredly important. If you definitely don't want to see the other again, never say whatever about a second date. And you should say a diplomatic 'no' if your date suggests you should meet again. Don't start the crap like 'I am busy right now, but I will call you in a few days'. Saying 'no' is unpleasant, but being level is good for both of you.
You Had Your First Date - What Next?
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